Upcoming Bootcamps

Small groups. Real cities.

• New York — Sep 11 - 13, 2026 — 2 spots left
• Miami — Oct 2 - 4, 2026 — Sold out, join waitlist
• Scottsdale — Oct 16 - 18, 2026 — Sold out, join waitlist
• Austin — Nov 6 - 8, 2026 — Sold out, join waitlist

Also coming up: San Diego, San Francisco, Mardi Gras New Orleans, and more...

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It's not your brain. It's your body.

• You have the career, the gym, the income. Your throat still locks the second she looks at you.
• More money won't fix this. Neither will more gym.
• You already know theory doesn't work. You've been watching videos for how long now?
• Every week that you leave this alone, the loop deepens.

Why I still run bootcamps

23 years in the field. Thousands coached live.

The half second between seeing her and moving is my whole job. I've coached guys through it live since January 2003, before YouTube existed: 23 years in the field, thousands of guys coached in person. Here's what that looks like: 3 nights in real venues, I go first, then you go while I stand 3 feet away and catch the exact beat your body bails and correct it while the pressure is still on. It works because the freeze runs on the nervous system, and a nervous system changes through reps under pressure, not information. Guys who froze for years leave starting conversations on their own. Plenty of coaches can sell you theory. I was in the field before this was an industry, and I've been evolving the process there ever since.

One correction, live, under pressure, is worth more than a hundred nights out with your boys.

Student Field Debriefs

Hear from guys who showed up scared and left changed. Their words, not mine.

What this is

This is a bootcamp. Not a course. Not a coaching call. Not another video you watch and nod at.

One clean rep doesn't rewire anything. So we do it again. And again. Until your nervous system fires a different default response.

• 3 nights, in person
• North America and Europe
• Coached by Jeff himself

By the end you will have

• The ability to walk into a venue and stay in your body
• The skill to start interactions cleanly without hovering
• Customized drills matched to your exact sticking points
• A tight group of serious guys who keep each other moving
• A nervous system that stops folding the moment pressure shows up

Who gets in

Not everyone. On purpose.

This is application-based because I'm protecting the group, the standard, and ultimately your experience.

Apply if you are:

• Willing to hear hard truths and act on them
• Ready to take reps without negotiating for safety
• Serious about changing how you show up

Do not apply if you want:

• A hack with no discomfort
• A magic script
• A place to act out or be disrespectful

apply or keep reading.

Questions I get

What happens after I apply?

You schedule a short assessment call with a member of my team. We look at where you are, what patterns are running, and whether this is actually the right move. If it's a fit, we'll lay out the next steps. If not, we tell you fast.

What does a typical day look like?

Morning debrief, calibration, clear focus for the day. Then real environments - you run reps and get feedback between sets from me and my coaching team. Later we move into social venues under higher pressure and faster timing. Full immersion, all day.

How many people, and how much attention do I get?

Small groups on purpose, so you're working live with me and my assistants between sets, all night. It's not an audience watching a stage.

How intense is it?

Very. This is not a vacation. You will be pushed outside your comfort zone repeatedly. That is the point. Growth happens at the edge and I take you there with support and structure.

What if I have a lot of anxiety?

Good. Most guys do. Anxiety is not a disqualifier, it just means I start where you are. The coaching is calibrated to your nervous system so you build real confidence, not fake bravado.

What if I have tried other programs?

Most of my guys have. Courses, content, coaching, theory. The reason it did not stick is because information does not retrain your nervous system. Reps in real environments do. That is what I do differently.

What if I'm not ready?

None of us are ever ready. We just decide it's time to try something different. The anxiety that's running you doesn't leave on its own. Breaking free is a matter of facing it head on, not running away.

What cities do you run?

Bootcamps run all over. New cities get added all the time. We figure out the right city and date for you on the assessment call.

How much is it?

It depends on the program, and we tell you the number on the assessment call once we know where you're starting from. If bootcamp isn't the right move for you, we say so on the call and point you at something that is.

What happens after the bootcamp?

You don't go home and hope it holds. We build a plan with you - what to keep drilling and where to put the reps next - so the progress continues after the three nights.